Here's a suggestion: unplug.
This weekend, why not put on some music, pour a glass of wine or tea, and just sit and talk or think or read. Rediscover the person you love and cherish! (You or someone else...)
Whether you are single or in a relationship, truly leisurely, directionless time to just be and reflect is so important. We need it to recharge, dream, and connect with others.
This type of time does not happen when our primary relationship is with the internet.
When we are sitting on a device, we may think that we are in the room with other people, but we are not.
Think of it this way: every time you reach for your computer or phone, you are leaving the room.
When you find yourself reaching to check that [insert device of choice here], think to yourself, "Is this really what I want to be doing right now?"
Here are some suggestions for unplugging (this goes for phones, too!):
1. Turn off automatic email notificationWhat to do instead of looking at a screen:
2. Set a time when you go on the Internet for how long you want to be on the computer. When the timer rings, turn off your computer.
3. Resist the temptation to check everything every five minutes. Do what you need to do when you need to do it. Set aside time for your internet activities, and then engage in your life outside of the screenworld.
1. Cook a mealand on and on...
2. Make a snack
3. Have a conversation
4. Give someone you love a foot rub
5. Listen to music -- dance to music!
6. Read a book
7. Leaf through a magazine
8. Plan an adventure.
9. Think about the future
Sounds like a vacation, eh?
Good luck with having a cozy, unplugged weekend!